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Writer's pictureBrian Doyle

We Were Made For Each Other, So Why Do You Avoid Meeting?

My wife loves Hallmark movies. The cheesier the better. She knows what she’s getting, knows how horrible many of them are going to be, and she goes all in! I usually have to be careful: my boys have Hallmark movie bingo cards to find all the obvious plot points and cheesy parts of each movie, so, often, I’ll bounce them from the room so she can enjoy her movie in peace. What is always so funny, though, is it seems the characters are made for each other (hint, they are; that is how they are written). Last night, as my wife and I were drifting off to sleep, she began talking about a few of those movies. And it got me thinking along a different line: while people are rarely made for each other (good relationships are forged, and get better often through the fires of adversity), under the blood of Christ, the Church is literally made for one another.

 

The Cross of Christ reconciled us to God, yes, but it also served another purpose: to reconcile us with one another. Proof of this is through the evidences provided by the Holy Spirit. At the Tower of Babel, God separated people by language, because, apart from Him, a united humanity was wicked and self-serving; on the day of Pentecost, through the Holy Spirit, everyone in Jerusalem heard the Gospel in his or her native language. Jews and Gentiles rarely had anything to do with one another in Biblical times, yet when Peter entered Cornelius’ house, the same Spirit that lived in Peter lived in Cornelius and his household. And, today, that same Spirit still draws all tribes, tongues and nations together.

 

We were made for each other. There are some 100 “one anothers” in the Scriptures, 94 of which are in the New Testament, and if we’re to look at the Old Testament laws on how Israel was to treat their neighbors, that number greatly increases. And the gifts of the Spirit are to glorify God and build up the body. We all have a unique gifting from the Holy Spirit with which to edify and lift up the body: we can’t do that going solo! Being a member of the Body is important. Christians need to find a local body of believers to plug in to. God will never say to someone “It’s just not time to be plugged in to my church right now.” Instead, Scripture says “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Hebrews 12:24-25). We were made for each other! You have a gift, talent and purpose in the Body of Christ. Don’t neglect it!

 

1 Corinthians 12

 

Now concerning spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to be uninformed. You know that when you were pagans you were led astray to mute idols, however you were led. Therefore I want you to understand that no one speaking in the Spirit of God ever says “Jesus is accursed!” and no one can say “Jesus is Lord” except in the Holy Spirit.

 

Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone. To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.

 

For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.

 

For the body does not consist of one member but of many. If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.

 

The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.

 

Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it. And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, helping, administrating, and various kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? But earnestly desire the higher gifts.

 

And I will show you a still more excellent way.

 

Romans 12

 

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

 

For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.

 

Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

 

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.




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